4 Ways To Learn How to Love Yourself


As what they have said, you can’t be successful in other relationships in your life unless you’re at peace with yourself. You won’t be able to love someone else and give them your utmost attention unless you learn to love yourself. You can’t forgive someone else for their mistakes if you’re not secure yourself. No matter what you do, whatever you’re engaging in, you can’t find ultimate peace if you don’t have enough love with yourself. That’s why it’s important for us to learn how to love ourselves. However, many of us don’t know how to do it because we’re too busy giving our love out to other people.

“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection”  – Buddha

For people who feel lost, here are our top tips on how to improve your relationship with yourself.

Learn To Love Yourself: Accept Who You Are


The first step in loving yourself profoundly is by accepting who you are. If you are flawed, that’s okay. Accept yourself. If you are fat or incredibly thin, embrace it. If you are poor, learn to be contented with your life. Now, don’t get us wrong. We know that sometimes you might feel dissatisfied with your life, and that’s okay. It just means that you have dreams and goals to better your life, and right now, you’re working hard to improve yourself.

However, while you’re still not there, learn how to accept the present you. You need to get to love yourself despite the flaws, mistakes, and inconsistencies you have. If you don’t who else will? Self-acceptance is the key to loving yourself. You’re beautiful; you’re worth it. And you are worth celebrating. If you love yourself, you’ll be contented and secure with your love. You’ll also find that you don’t really need someone else to attest your worthiness.

Make time for yourself

This is actually in connection with number 1. If you love yourself, of course, you’ll do anything to make yourself happy. One way of proving that you love yourself is to make yourself happy. That’s why you should take some time to treat yourself. Do you want to try eating in a fancy restaurant for once in your life? Do it.

Want to travel to another place to do some soul searching? Go ahead and explore the world. Do you dream of becoming a new chef soon? Practice cooking. Do what you love to do. If you’re happy, your heart is full, and your soul is fulfilled. Pursue all the things you want in life.

Don’t be so hard on yourself

If you have some self-acceptance, then this shouldn’t be a problem to you. However, for those who tend to forget, don’t be too hard on yourself. One of our main problems is that while we’re not used to appreciating ourselves, we’re too keen in criticizing ourselves,  especially when we make a mistake. In fact, we’re on top of the list of those people who bring us down.

If we do something wrong, we keep on chastising ourselves for it. We keep seeing how wrong, how irresponsible, and how worthless we are. While it’s okay to acknowledge your mistakes, dwelling on it for long isn’t going to help you. It will just lead to depression and self-inferiority. What you need to do is lift your chin up, with determination to start all over again. Believe in yourself. There’s always next time, and you can always try again. You’ll get this right!

Smile more often


Smiling is only a small gesture, but it can make a great difference to your insights in your life. A smile can do many wonderful things. For one, it will lift up your soul. It will remind you not to take life too seriously. Yes, life is a serious battle, but don’t let life overpower you.

Show the world that you have full control of your life. Know when to get serious and when to have fun. Life is all about fun, experience, and building beautiful memories. And remember, life is temporary. You never know when your last day is going to be. That’s why you should keep on living life to the fullest. Enjoy it while it lasts.

“A man cannot be comfortable without his own approval.”
– Mark Twain

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